Faizah is a 36-year-old, mother of 2 gorgeous boys and the owner of a very successful business. She came to me feeling overwhelmed and stuck and about to burn out from working so hard on her business.

Faizah came to me as she was working every hour she could find outside of the family to grow her already successful coaching business. She felt like a constant imposter and was stretching herself thin. She rarely stopped to celebrate her milestones or acknowledge her wins. She felt constantly guilty because she couldn’t find the balance between work and family.

“I just knew I was stuck. Wasn't going forward in my business. Felt like an imposter. Didn't feel like I had good enough results to offer myself a high-end service. Had no work-life balance.”

The root cause of Faiza’s issue was not feeling good enough, she didn't’ feel worthy of having both a successful business and being a great mum. When the business was going well she would subconsciously sabotage her family life by working even more hours and spending less time with her family.

Then when her family life was going well she would spend less and less time in her business and get back to potential clients late, taking time off, etc. Because no matter how much you want something consciously your subconscious will always have the final say. She knew what she should be doing, but she would fall back into the same pattern again and again.

Using my unique Emotional repatterning™ method, we worked on uncovering why she didn’t feel good enough. Her subconscious took her straight back to a scene in which her mum was cooking and looking away from her. Faizah as a 4-year-old took this to mean that she wasn't good enough, because if she was her mum would be looking at her and wanting to spend time with her.

Children are egocentric and can only understand the world in relation to themselves. Even though as an adult she understood this wasn't the case. Her inner child understood it to mean that she wasn’t good enough. At 36 years of age, Faizah was still seeing her self-worth from that 4-year-olds an outdated and unhelpful understanding of a mundane everyday situation.

We worked on enabling Faizah to let go of that belief on the subconscious level and to give its true meaning that her mum was loving her by making nutritious meals for her and she wanted to spend time with her which is why she was on a chair side by side with her mum.

Faizah was able to;

• Accept herself as she is with all the imperfections that make her human.

• Learn to celebrate her wins and own her strengths,

• She was able to hire an assistant to help her with all the tasks that didn’t need to be done by her so she could work less and have more family time.

• We rewired her subconscious to believe that she can have both a thriving business and that she can be a good mum.

• She recognised that the most important opinion of her was that opinion she had about herself and her self-belief soared.

• She stopped people-pleasing, especially her clients who deserved to be treated like capable adults and they loved her for it because she was her authentic self

• Her marriage improved because she brought quality time with her husband and date nights became non-negotiable.

• She learnt to love herself and as her relationship with herself improved so did her relationship with her lord.

• She worked less and made more money because potential clients were attracted to her authentic self and the energy that comes from loving yourself and being chilled

Here is what Faizah had to say after 4 months of Emotional repatterning™

“I no longer have imposter syndrome, I stopped pleasing people-pleasing and I found validation within when I let go of the root cause of why I didn’t feel good enough. I realised I had been hustling and working really hard all my life...and it served me up to a point, but now I can choose to work differently, work smarter instead. I now work part-time and have a team. I have an unshakeable belief that I can have both a successful business and the family life I have always wanted.

You can get out of the cycles and CHOOSE differently. I felt empowered to make changes I never knew were possible for me. It paved the way to fully accepting myself and finally overcoming imposter syndrome. I have found peace and that’s priceless!’”

Are you ready to choose differently? If so, inbox me and share with me what's holding you back from being all that you can be.

Halima is a 34-year-old pediatrician working with seriously ill children. She came to me because she thought she had finally met her husband but that engagement fell through. She was devastated and all of society's expectations and her insecurities hit her head.

She fell into a scarcity mentally about all the good men being taken, about being too old, having missed the boat. She had internalised all the BS that women 30 and above her about her marital status.

“I was referred to Naima by a friend who had worked with her previously. I was an emotional mess after my engagement with a man that I was certain about ended. At 34, it hit me really hard and all my insecurities hit me at once. I felt emotionally crippled and started to believe that I would be alone forever. I have a demanding pediatrician job and couldn’t focus in or out of work. I knew I needed help and I trusted my friend."

Halima had internalised all of society's BS about not getting married early and the broken engagement triggered all the insecurities she had been suppressing for so long. She was scared that she wasn’t loveable enough, or attractive enough, that being successful in her chosen career would intimidate men, she was scared that she was too old and that she may never have children. She was questioning if her work, which she loved and was her legacy, had ruined her chance of having her own family.

We took apart each of her worries, the fear of being unloved came from her mum and dad divorcing when she was 7 and him starting a new family and rarely visiting them. The 7-year-old in her took it to mean that she wasn’t loveable and that there was something wrong with her or her dad would have stayed with them. She had a deep fear of her relationship breaking down. She would withdraw into herself when a relationship was getting close to marriage and she would end it subconsciously with her outward action of becoming emotionally unavailable.

We were able to remove the old damaging programming and replace it with an empowering one. There is always a possibility that a relationship might end but she understood that she was resourceful enough and capable enough to thrive in any situation. That her fear was holding her back from what she wanted.

Halima was able to;

• Understand that what happened between her mum and dad wasn’t a reflection of how lovable she is.

• She was able to come to terms with the fear of divorce, and reframe it so that she believed she would thrive in any situations

• She was able to reconnect with the 7-year-old within and get her to feel loved and cherished.

• She was offered a promotion out of the blue to lead her team at work and took it instead of holding herself back so she wouldn’t put off a prospective husband.

• She let go of society's beliefs that she was ‘passed it’ and decided to love her single years and booked herself several trips from her bucket list instead of waiting to go with her husband to be

• She met a man who appreciated her intellect and was proud of her success and the families met to set a date.

• She gave herself permission to get the pixie haircut that she had wanted for a while instead of waiting for her mum to give her permission (sometimes it's the little things)

Here is what Halima’s had to say after 6 months of Emotional repatterning™ enabling her to flourish and love herself in the true sense.

“I look back and it feels unreal that in that time I have healed my inner child, accepting that he wasn’t right for me and that Allah loved me enough to separate me from him. The anxiety and feeling of being out of control are gone. I have accepted that we can’t rush what is for us and nor do I want to. My single years are going to be FUN regardless of my age or what my parents or relatives say. I have booked myself 2 trips this year from my bucket list. I have met a wonderful man who knows my worth but more importantly I know my worth and have let go of my fear of divorce.

The only way to describe Naima’s work is halal magic! She is doing what she was put on earth to do, putting women back together so we can own our gifts and talents and shine. I don't care who you may have worked with in the past, if you get the opportunity to work with Naima and you don’t… know it's a mistake.”

Aisha is a single, 25-year-old social worker living at home with her parents. She came to me with emotional burnout from stress and overthinking, she felt exhausted by lack of boundaries. And the resentment that comes with always being the one bending over backward to accommodate everyone else. She struggled with self-care and self-compassion and was tough on herself. Whenever she felt like she had taken a misstep or made a poor decision

“I had so many issues but my main struggles were stress, low self-esteem and confidence, boundary and self-trust issues which made me overthink and worry about making decisions.”

The root cause of Aisha’s issue was not feeling loveable enough as is the case with many women who have been raised by parents who didn’t praise her often enough or tell her how much they loved her during the formative years of 0-7. We worked on getting Aisha’s inner child to feel loved by enabling Aisha to become a loving parent to herself using my Emotional Repatterning™ technique.

I was able to help Aisha understand some of her childhood experiences that made her feel that she wasn't loveable enough. Her inner child needed to believe that she was loveable just the way she was. That she was loved by her parents even though they didn’t know how to express that love, other than by feeding, clothing, and making sure she did well at school.

She learnt to understand on a conscious level and accept on the subconscious level that she was a perfect loveable innocent child who was loved by her parents even if they couldn't express it in a way that she understood. Acceptance is liberation.

Aisha was able to

• Build healthy boundaries with those she cared about and become more loving and less resentful.

• Her inner child felt truly loved and so she was able to let go of people-pleasing because she was no longer ‘buying’ love from others

• She was less stressed at work because she embodied the belief that everything is figureout-able.

• Her imposter syndrome disappeared and she didn’t need to take on more responsibilities than her role required to prove her worth.

• She learnt to trust herself and her decision-making and no longer needed everyone's approval before making a decision.

• She was able to confidently buy her first home even though her mum didn’t like the house, she loved it and that was enough.

• She is no longer plagued by overthinking and future anxiety because she knows she can handle whatever comes her way.

• She has finally met the man she wants to marry because she knows her worth and has attracted a higher caliber of man.

What Aisha has after the 6 months of transformation using Emotional Repatterning™

“I have a sense of freedom and lightness from my old issues, I have excellent coping mechanisms, I know and recognise my self-worth now and so I can put boundaries in place, and I can say no. I feel like I'm in the driving seat of my own life and not my emotions. Throw away the limiting belief that says you’re not worth the time or investment and CHOOSE you!”

Are you ready to choose yourself? If so then inbox me, I have 1 spot available for my 1:1 starting in march. My 1:1 fills up quickly and there is usually a waitlist because results like these are life-changing!

Imane is a mum of two and a nurse. She came to me, having gotten stuck in an emotional rut, having had a difficult time adjusting to living with her in-laws, and having experienced postnatal depression with her first child.

Imane reached out to me with trauma from the birth of her first child and the pressure of living with her in-laws,

"I was also a first-time mum, living with another family while already having low-self esteem and being sensitive, and I was diagnosed with postnatal depression. It was the toughest time in my life. I had counseling sessions, but I didn’t feel a shift"

We got started on working on a deeply transformational 6-month 1:1. By using emotional repatterning™, I was able to help Imane uncover and understand the root cause of her lack of self-esteem and help her rebuild her belief in her innate God-given worthiness. She had already received counseling for her postnatal depression, but the conscious work didn’t shift the way she felt about herself and all the self-blame and shame she felt. She had a deep belief that it was a personal failure to have got PND, and she couldn’t forgive herself.

We were able to;

• Release the guilt and shame and get her to embrace her previously wounded self fully,

• She was able to give herself self-compassion and to see the strength she had in seeking help,

• She was able to look back at the struggling Iman and be proud of her ability to get help and get better.

• She realised that not having boundaries in her relationships was making her vulnerable to others taking advantage of her and learnt to say no

• She let go of please pleasing as she is now able to validate herself and knows her worth

• She let go of wanting to be a superwoman who did it all and embraced outsourcing and rest

• She was able to reconnect with her children the more she connected with herself and learnt to like herself.

• She realised and owned her desire to be a mum and a pharmacist unapologetically as she was the only working mum in her family and her mum guilt was out of control

“I have completely disconnected myself from the birth trauma, my self-esteem has been rebuilt, and am now assertive and no longer people-pleasing, enjoying my family and my work. It’s been life-changing for my family too. Now that I am happy, they are all happy and flourishing. I took a chance and now am so grateful to Allah and Naima. Honestly, just do it for yourself. Life is too short, I wish I knew about Naima earlier!"

If you want to uncover the specific subconscious blocks that are holding you back, it's not always what you think it is, then message me to see if we are a good fit together.