4 Potential Prohibitors Archetypes®

Pursuer®

The Pursuer® is a 'Attachement wound' formed as a survival mechanism when love was conditional as a child. We form the core belief that 'I am not loveable' or that ‘I am not loveable as I am'.

As an adult, this archetypal wound shows up as you always trying to do everything perfectly, overstaying in relationships in which you are not treated well, and craving and seeking reassurance and affection. Struggling to communicate your true feelings and often feeling unheard and unseen. You over-give in your relationships and then feel resentful or unloved when you don’t get it back from others. You struggle with self-care and often have a poor self-image (not feeling pretty, attractive, sexy, or loving your body). You want to be loved and feel lovable.

When your Pursuer Archetype ® is fully healed, you access and activate the Lover™.

The Lover™ is able to;

  • Have high regard for your own well-being and happiness.

  • Develop deeply loving and connected relationships.

  • No longer sacrifice your well-being to save/rescue or fix others.

  • Not settle for poor treatment or allow yourself to be treated with disrespect.

  • Lead your life from a place of love and trust instead of fear and overthinking.

  • Talk to and about yourself with love and compassion

  • No longer speak to yourself from a place of self-judgment and criticism.

  • Trust yourself and are compassionate with yourself even when you make a mistake.

  • You are authentically you (not being different in different social and situational settings).

  • Look after your body (movement, eating healthy, booking doctors, dentist appointments, etc)

  • Become rejection-proof and embrace the discomfort of growth which leads to success in all areas of your life.

To do this, we need to activate deep healing at all levels, the conscious, the subconscious, the energetics, and the spiritual. This is effectively the transformational work that I do with my client 121 in the Elevated Potential Academy™, where you can heal all 4 Potential Prohibitors® and step into success in all areas of your life via my unique Emotional repatterning technique™.

Accomplisher®

The Accomplisher® is a 'Less than wound' formed as a survival mechanism when we were only acknowledged, praised, or celebrated for our external achievements (academic, sports, outward behavior, etc). We formed the core belief that ‘I am only enough when I am achieving or doing'.

As an adult, this archetypal wound shows up as you worry about others finding out that you are not as good as they think you are, feelings of inadequacy, and not believing that you are as smart, beautiful, and capable as others. Always coming up short when you compare yourself to others, struggle to accept compliments, and deflect them.

You find it difficult to rest or sit quietly and often feel exhausted and close to burning out because your worth and value are dependent on always doing and achieving, you believe you have to work really hard and struggle, and you worry about ‘bad’ things happening even when everything is going well, you have a fear of failure and often shy away from opportunities.

When your Accomplisher® wound is fully healed, you access and activate the Receiver™.

The Receiver™ is able to;

  • You are able to be both assertive in expressing your needs and opinions.

  • You value your own ideas and opinions and are just as happy to disagree as you are to agree with another person.

  • You don’t ruminate on the past because you're living in the present and expect good from the future.

  • You are confident in your ability to make decisions (you trust yourself).

  • Don’t beat yourself up about making mistakes (you recognise everyone does and at the time you took the best decision).

  • Able to form secure and loving and connected relationships (you're able to communicate effectively and be vulnerable to build connections).

  • Less likely to stay in unhealthy ones because you know inherently that you deserve better.

  • Realistic in your expectations and less likely to be overly critical of yourself and others (you don’t make molehills into mountains).

  • You are more resilient and better able to weather stress and setbacks because you recognise that what is happening is not a reflection of your worth.

  • You accept and love yourself fully and become rejection-proof.

  • You are able to take risks and are growing because you recognise that we learn from failure leading to success in all areas of our life.

To do this, we need to activate deep healing at all levels, the conscious, the subconscious, the energetics, and the spiritual. This is effectively the transformational work that I do with my client 121 in the Elevated Potential Academy™, where you can heal all 4 Potential Prohibitors® and step into success in all areas of your life via my unique Emotional repatterning technique™.

Pleaser®

The Pleaser® is a 'Relationship wound' formed as a survival mechanism when we are raised with a lot of criticism. We learned that in order to not be punished or criticised, we have to be people-pleaser and end up with loose boundaries to avoid conflict and gain a sense of safety and predictability.

As an adult, this archetype wound shows up as being unable to say no when put on the spot your automatic reaction is to say ‘yes’ and then regret it later, you anticipate others' needs and wants and then feel underappreciated when others don’t do the same for you.

Me-time is nonexistent and you often feel resentful that others just won’t stop asking you to do things for them. You often hear yourself agreeing to or doing things that you don’t like or going against your values because you hate the idea of confrontation.

You feel manipulated or taken advantage of and blame others for not being considerate enough. You can’t stand the silent treatment and are always the first to apologise even if you didn't do anything wrong. At times you catch yourself feeling resentful and used.

When your Pleaser archetype® is fully healed, you access and activate the Charmer™.

The Charmer™ is able to;

  • Have healthy, connected relationships with others.

  • Say ‘no’ without guilt when saying ‘yes’ would be detrimental to your well-being.

  • Create me-time in which you are able to nourish your body, mind, and soul.

  • Have good boundaries with those in your life and no longer feel any resentment.

  • Have respect and trust in yourself and don't need to validate your decisions with others always.

  • An ‘owner’ and no longer a ‘victim’ because you recognise that you are fully responsible for your life and not seeking permission.

  • Accept yourself fully including owning your strengths and accepting your weaknesses and imperfections.

  • Take risks and are growing because you recognise that failure is the feedback that leads to success in all areas of life.

To do this, we need to activate deep healing at all levels, the conscious, the subconscious, the energetics, and the spiritual. This is effectively the transformational work that I do with my client 121 in the Elevated Potential Academy™, where you can heal all 4 Potential Prohibitors® and step into success in all areas of your life via my unique Emotional repatterning technique™.

Doubter®

The Doubter® is an ‘Abundance wound’ formed as a survival mechanism when you experienced a lot of comparison and judgment. You formed the belief that ‘I can’t have it all because there isn’t enough for everyone’.

As an adult, this wound shows up as you always focus on what you don't have, you don’t delegate or ask for support as you would rather do it yourself, you struggle to practice gratitude daily, and can’t think of things to be grateful for without digging deeper, you are paralysed by a fear of failure and avoid risk-taking. Or you have a fear of success but it doesn’t feel safe to have it all in case others are envious or give you evil eyes, you often get stuck in a cycle of negative thinking and feeling demotivated. You are prone to anxiety and fearful of loss, whether that is in your relationships, finances, health, etc. You have tunnel vision and are always focusing on what isn't working.

When your Doubter archetype® is fully healed, you access and activate the Believer™.

The Believer™ enables you to;

  • Have a bigger vision for your life while enjoying the life you have currently.

  • Be willing to take risks and fail fast in order to succeed.

  • Know that you are supported and protected by God and do not have to fear people or loss.

  • You recognise opportunities and put yourself forward for them.

  • You are able to fully celebrate others' success and blessings.

  • You have a growth mindset and belief in lifelong learning.

  • You become a fast action taker and want to grow and up a level.

  • Your mind chatter is supportive and loving and cheers you on.

  • Win-win attitude (we can all have it all).

  • Cultivate gratitude and focus on what is working and see everything else as a project.

  • You have a positive outlook and belief that no matter what is happening, you will thrive.

  • You are able to ask for and receive support, gifts, and blessing gladly.

  • You are able to take risks and are growing because you recognise that we learn from failure, which leads to success in all areas of life.

To do this, we need to activate deep healing at all levels, the conscious, the subconscious, the energetics, and the spiritual. This is effectively the transformational work that I do with my client 121 in the Elevated Potential Academy™, where you can heal all 4 Potential Prohibitors® and step into success in all areas of your life via my unique Emotional repatterning technique™.